Today is another Tuesday; another day of talking about sex; yes, sex makes the world go round. I see myself as a home builder because a marriage without good sex is surely built on a shaky foundation. We are going to talk about foreplay today because I have realized that many couples do not know how to engage in foreplay or some even see it as unnecessary. Some men believe in the wham-bam-thank-you-ma kind of sex and when their women introduce foreplay, they tend to see such women as loose. But let me tell you that foreplay is quite awesome. Who says foreplay is boring? These 7 tips are sure to change your mind, what to do to make foreplay enjoyable for both of you and produce some amazing sex.
1. How you look: Remember, guys are visual by nature. They get turned on by what they see. So, taking care of how you look is a high priority if you want to turn your man on and arouse him. Think of this as a ‘pre’ foreplay tip to use before you even begin touching him. If you are both going to a party together, dressing up in something sexy and hot is going to start turning your man on hours before you start getting physically intimate. This is great for building sexual tension with him.
2. Talk dirty: Talking dirty is another one of ‘pre’ foreplay tips to use on your man throughout the day, before you are both alone together, as well as during foreplay itself. This is to build the sexual tension and have your man salivating for you. Many people believe that talking dirty involves you using various expletives and bad language on your partner. They believe that the crazier they sound the better. This, however, isn’t true. It’s much easier than that! You just need to tell him what you enjoy, why he turns you on and what you want to do to him. As well as this, it’s always a good idea to throw in some vague statements to keep him guessing and thinking about you.
3. Learn how to be a good kisser: Many people think that kissing is a boring foreplay technique. It’s not boring at all. And if you do it right, then it can be incredibly hot! The key is taking the initiative. In other words, you need to kiss your man first before he gets a chance to kiss you. One thing you can do to make this foreplay tip hotter is getting a little more aggressive:
*Try squeezing one of his lips between your lips.
*Gently bite one of his lips between your teeth (Please, be gentle o!)
*Use your hand to move his head to one side or the other so that you can change where you kiss him.
*Switch from kissing him on the lips to sucking his ear lobe to kissing him on the neck.
*Don’t forget to kiss the rest of his body!
4. Learn how to give a good hand-job: While kissing your man, you can incorporate another foreplay tip, which is giving your man a hand-job. Rather than give you a whole course on how to give a hand-job to your man, here are the main things to keep in mind when jerking him off. Use these tips:
*Alternate how hard you hold your man’s penis in your hand(s). Hold it firmly for a little bit, then give him some soft and gentle strokes before grabbing it more tightly again.
*Use your entire hand to grip his shaft, then, just use your thumb and forefinger.
*Run each finger slowly over the head of his Johnny.
*Grab his shaft with your fingers and then put your thumb over the head of his joy stick.
*Use some of his pre-cum as a lubricant, and move your thumb in a circular motion over the head. Don’t be surprised if this alone is enough to make him climax.
5. Massage his scalp: Massaging your man’s scalp is one of those forgotten foreplay tips that feels wonderful for him. You can do it while you are just sitting down beside each other, when you are lying in bed, when you are kissing each other or even while having sex, too. But don’t just scrape his head with your nails abeg! To massage his scalp, start from the bottom near the back of his neck or just above his ear. Keeping your hand loose, start to slowly push your fingers through his hair up towards the top of his head. When you reach the top of his head, curl your fingers slightly and gently bring them down in the opposite direction, lightly scratching his head.
6. Just the tip: This foreplay tip is great to use right as you are about to have sex with your man. It’s called ‘Just the tip’, because you are going to tease your man by only allowing the tip of his penis to just about enter you. It’s great for building sexual tension right before sex. The easiest way to play ‘just the tip’ with your man is to grab a hold of his penis so that you can control where it goes. Once you have it in your hand, start rubbing your labia and clitoris with the tip (the head of his penis) for a little bit before allowing just the tip of it to enter you. After he enters you, only allow him to penetrate about half an inch or so. Doing this final foreplay tip for a few minutes before he fully enters you will drive him wild with desire.
7. Give him an awesome blow-job: If you really want to learn how to please your man, then you need to learn the ultimate foreplay tip, which is learning how to give a great blow-job. There is nothing that turns a man on than to see his woman go down on him and gives him the biggest BJ he has ever had.
Try these tips tonight and see your man go wild. Don’t forget to thank me after having your wild nights but remember, this is meant for only legal couples. If you are still single, please stay away.
Am Out.
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