For Ladies – 18 Ways To Tell Your Date Is A Disaster!!!

Here are ways that screams it all that your date is not a ‘palatable’ one.
1. He bumps into someone he knows, really whoops it up in side conversation, and never even bothers to introduce you.

2. If you completely blank on the guy’s name or, perhaps even worse, refer to him by the wrong name, you’re done. “Jason” and “Jeffrey” are surprisingly not one in the same.
3. He orders the messiest thing on the menu. At this point, he’s clearly done trying to impress you. Honey BBQ wings make that pretty clear.
4. If Candy Crush or Angry Birds makes an appearance during the course of your time together, get your car keys. It’s a wrap.
5. You feel exhausted like you’ve been on three back-to-back job interviews before the waiter even tops off your iced tea.
6. He looks at the street lights, the Dunkin Donuts sign, the homeless man peeing on the sidewalk, anywhere but at you. Consistently and purposely.
7. You find yourself wondering what your couch and sweatpants are doing.
8. He bulldozes ahead through every entrance and lets each door slam on you.
9. You get into an argument. It is not playful banter. It is indeed an argument.
10. You make eye contact with another woman and send her a telepathic message for help, but she is like “duuh!”

11. He asks you how you feel about abortion and the death penalty and then proceeds to pummel you with little condescending jabs until you lie about wanting to get back to the very job you despise.
12. He asks you about your favorite football team, and when you mention that you’re not a fan of his, he decides you’re no longer worth his time and leaves you hanging.
13. Every two sentences are swallowed up by a five-minute chasm of awkward, cough-and-stifled-misery-filled silence.
14. Your best friend texts you with news that he just updated his Facebook status to grump about being on the date from the seventh ring of hell.
15. He offers up an exit strategy before you even get a chance to get your coat off. You’ve never even heard of hamster sitting.
16. He goo-goo eyes other chicks, including your waitress, and doesn’t even attempt to downplay it.
17. You can’t believe you’re giving up reruns of Law & Order SVU to be there and are certain that Elliot Stabler is a much better human being than the one you’re sitting across from.
18. You get to your respective automobiles and no one even thinks about mentioning a second date. Or hugging. It’s like good and bye….

Skin Care: 5 Tips For A Healthy Skin!!!

Don’t have time for intensive skin care? Pamper yourself with the basics. Good skin care and healthy lifestyle choices can help delay the natural aging process and prevent various skin problems. Get started with these five no-nonsense tips.

1. Protect yourself from the sun
One of the most important ways to take care of your skin is to protect it from the sun. A lifetime of sun exposure can cause wrinkles, age spots and other skin problems — as well as increase the risk of skin cancer.
For the most complete sun protection:
Use sunscreen. Use a broad-spectrum sunscreen with an SPF of at least 15. When you’re outdoors, reapply sunscreen every two hours — or more often if you’re swimming or perspiring.
Seek shade. Avoid the sun between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m., when the sun’s rays are strongest.
Wear protective clothing. Cover your skin with tightly woven long-sleeved shirts, long pants and wide-brimmed hats. Also consider laundry additives, which give clothing an additional layer of ultraviolet protection for a certain number of washings, or special sun-protective clothing — which is specifically designed to block ultraviolet rays.
2. Don’t smoke
Smoking makes your skin look older and contributes to wrinkles. Smoking narrows the tiny blood vessels in the outermost layers of skin, which decreases blood flow. This depletes the skin of oxygen and nutrients that are important to skin health. Smoking also damages collagen and elastin — the fibers that give your skin its strength and elasticity. In addition, the repetitive facial expressions you make when smoking — such as pursing your lips when inhaling and squinting your eyes to keep out smoke — can contribute to wrinkles.
If you smoke, the best way to protect your skin is to quit. Ask your doctor for tips or treatments to help you stop smoking.
3. Treat your skin gently
Daily cleansing and shaving can take a toll on your skin. To keep it gentle:

Limit bath time. Hot water and long showers or baths remove oils from your skin. Limit your bath or shower time, and use warm — rather than hot — water.
Avoid strong soaps. Strong soaps and detergents can strip oil from your skin. Instead, choose mild cleansers.
Shave carefully. To protect and lubricate your skin, apply shaving cream, lotion or gel before shaving. For the closest shave, use a clean, sharp razor. Shave in the direction the hair grows, not against it.
Pat dry. After washing or bathing, gently pat or blot your skin dry with a towel so that some moisture remains on your skin.
Moisturize dry skin. If your skin is dry, use a moisturizer that fits your skin type. For daily use, consider a moisturizer that contains SPF.
4. Eat a healthy diet
A healthy diet can help you look and feel your best. Eat plenty of fruits, vegetables, whole grains and lean proteins. The association between diet and acne isn’t clear — but some research suggests that a diet rich in vitamin C and low in unhealthy fats and processed or refined carbohydrates might promote younger looking skin.
5. Manage stress
Uncontrolled stress can make your skin more sensitive and trigger acne breakouts and other skin problems. To encourage healthy skin — and a healthy state of mind — take steps to manage your stress. Set reasonable limits, scale back your to-do list and make time to do the things you enjoy. The results might be more dramatic than you expect.

For Ladies ''6 Things Women Do That Push Men Away''

You need to read this because it will be of help to you in your relationship......

1. Wanting a Man to Change
Many women get in a relationship thinking they can change the man. If a man makes a change for a relationship, the benefit must outweigh the consequences of that change. “I get it: You don’t want anything to make me as happy as you do. But if you’re willing to chase this result by eliminating everything else I might love from my life, then I don’t want you”, says Good.

2. An Overwrought Sense of Urgency
“Man Code” men liken romance to playing poker. “It’s better to conserve emotion for only the most meaningful circumstances,” Good says. While men pay attention to overall themes, women tend to sweat the small stuff. He wants women to know that ulterior motives are not a Man Code man thing to play at, if he’s out late with his friends, he’s just out late with his friends.

3. S*x on the First Date
Unfortunate but true, the “Man Code” man is chivalrous but also “red-blooded and carnal” like most guys. If a woman offers séx on the first, any man will probably take her up on that. A woman that can walk away with a goodnight kiss and leave the man guessing appeals much more to men. They like the thrill of a chase.

4. Talking Things to Death
According to Good, women need to think of love as “quiet.” In other words, it’s what you do when no one is looking, how you find their hand when things are bad and tell them it’s okay. If you hear “I love you” constantly it loses it’s value. “Love is the result of the events in our lives, not the result of talking about the idea of it,” assures Good.

5. Disloyalty
Loyalty is everything, it is the currency of our lives, declares Good. When women are disloyal to other women, it tells the man they will be disloyal to them, too.

6. A Failure to Let a Lion be a Lion
In the same way that a women wants to feel taken care of and protected, a man wants to know he’s the one that made her feel that way. Good explains, “With a look or word, you can empower us.”

Good has one powerful piece of advice for women: Don’t forget why your man fell for you. Woman AND men seem to stop doing the little things they did at the beginning of a relationship that made it fun. Think back and try doing some of the little things you “used” to do for him.


source: entertainment.vacancynigeria

Types Of Sex That Is Unhealthy For You

I know you have been waiting for this Tuesday tonic of SexVille. Well, I also had a tough time counting the days. And finally, we are here. Today, I want us to look at the types of sex that can be unhealthy for you. You may have indulged in one of them or the other and while it may seem to some that sex is sex and getting it can never be a bad thing, there can be such a thing as the wrong kind of sex. Like most guilty pleasures, sex with the wrong person or for the wrong reason is bad, yeah, really bad. Think you know the difference between healthy and unhealthy sex? See if you’ve ever participated in any of the following, and if it was good or bad for you.
First Date Sex
There are no rules as to when a person should or should not have sex. If you’re feeling frisky after a few drinks on the first date or even want to have a one-night-stand, that’s your business. But for some, sex on the first date can make you feel used, dirty or bad about yourself the next day. When it comes to deciding on having sex on the first night, let your instincts be your guide and be safe about it. Just be sure you’re comfortable with your decision, whatever it is.

Break-Up Sex
You may be saying to each other, “Let’s just do it once for old time’s sake,” but that could just make the break up worse than it already is. Most people who want to have break-up sex are still trying to hold on in some way, which can only make the break-up linger longer than it should. Either decide to break up, break ties completely and move on, or stop playing around and decide if breaking up is really what you want to do. If not, then work it out. If it is a break-up, no more goodies. Even if you feel like you can move on after sex, the other person may still be in his or her feelings and you don’t want to take the other person on an emotional roller coaster. Don’t do it.

Make-Up Sex
Make-up sex can be fun, but it can be damaging in the long run if every argument is settled this way. If you have sex after you’ve come to a resolution to the conflict, then rock out! But if you both gloss over the issue by having sex just to shut the other person up or avoid the issue altogether, chances are you’ll just keep arguing over the same thing and never come up with a solution. Some couples can function this way, and thriving on conflict is what keeps their relationship exciting. But chances are this can’t go on forever before one of you starts to feel resentful, cheated or dismissed. Also, some men or women may purposely start some issues just to have make-up sex because they think that’s the best sex. If you really don’t like confrontation or drama, make-up sex may only create more of it.

Don’t Leave Me Sex
This is the desperate sex you have when you want to keep a man after he’s said that he’s leaving you, or wants to break up. It’s that feeble attempt to save the relationship, hoping that the man will realize all that good loving he’ll be missing if he leaves and no one can put it on him like you do. Chill here, please. Sex may get a man, but it won’t keep him. And if you think that’s all you have to offer him so that he’ll stay or that’s the only thing he’ll be missing about you, then you need to let him go so you can work on building yourself up.

Peer Pressure Sex
If you had sex because your friends are doing it or because you were being teased for being a 22-year-old virgin, then you probably didn’t enjoy it. Sex usually isn’t the greatest the first time anyway, so it’s best to wait until you are ready to do ‘the do’ for the first time. Also, if a man says he’s not waiting anymore because it’s been three months and you still haven’t given him the cookies, don’t give in. If he’s not willing to wait, he’s undeserving of your love and sex anyway.

Rebound Sex
You may think that having sex with the next guy you meet after a bad break-up will make you feel better; but chances are it won’t. Now, if it’s been months since you ended a relationship and are in a rut, then getting busy with someone new can bring about a sense of renewed confidence by feeling desired by another man. Sex can be a stress reliever too, so having sex with the next best thing may have its benefits at first to loosen you up. But if you’re looking to the rebound guy to fill a void before you’ve healed from a previous relationship, rebound sex may only make you feel worse.

Drunken Sex
Some people like having sex while they’re inebriated because the alcohol helps them to lose their inhibitions and be freaky all night long. I can see how that might work. But drinking too much has also caused many men and women to make bad judgment calls when choosing who to sleep with, where, and even engaging in risky behavior – like not using condoms. Some say that alcohol also dampens sensation, decreases their ability to climax and some men say that they have a hard time getting it up when they’re drunk. If you plan on having sex, have just one or two drinks. If you don’t plan on having sex, don’t get so drunk that you wind up doing something you’ll regret.
Pity Sex
This is the worst kind of sex you can ever have. Having sex because you feel sorry for someone is just lame. Even if they don’t know it’s pity sex, it will only make you just as pathetic as the person is. You may be making him feel better but what about you? If that person can’t get sex on his own, it’s probably for a reason. Don’t be the cornball who gives in to someone else’s shortcomings.
Obligatory Sex
Obligatory sex usually happens when one partner doesn’t feel like doing it, or may no longer enjoy it, but feels he or she needs to do it anyway – not out of pity, but out of duty. He wants sex morning, noon and night and tells you it’s your “job” to make sure all his needs are met…or someone else will.  If that’s the case, you should tell him to kick the rocks. This kind of sex can lead to feelings of resentment and eventually, you’ll reach your boiling point and blow up. If you don’t feel like it, don’t do it, especially if it’s to the point where it feels like a chore. Explain to him how you feel and ask him to be respectful of your feelings. If he can’t understand that, then too bad. Regular sex is important to a relationship, but if you’re tired, sick or just need a break, tell him to buzz off until you feel up to it.



source:pulse.ng

Kate Henshaw’s Book Launch---See Photos

Actress Kate Henshaw launched her photo book titled – The Life Of An Actress; My Story, yesterday at the Muson Center, Onikan. Rita Dominic, Chioma Chukwuka Akpotha, and Chidi Mokeme were at the launch to support their colleague. More photos when you continue…

P-Square Acquires Luxurious Limo Truck Worth of 130Million Naira----Photos

The super twins are done with their US/Canada tour and had a  ‘let’s get drunk party’ some hours ago in their130 Million Naira Luxurious Limo Truck to celebrate their successful year so far. More pics after the cut:

Nigerian rapper,Naeto C Return Back to School

“The only MC with an MSc
So dont be surprised when they jealous me
I know levels don change so they select me…”

That is Naeto C, that Nigerian rapper who prides himself as the only Nigerian musician with a Master’s degree. Good for him there. But this son of diplomat mother, Mrs. Kema Chikwe is not yet done with the classrooms as he has reportedly gone back to school at the prestigious Oxford University in London, taking a course in Energy Economics. But my issue here is whether he has decided to dump music finally? Only time will tell. 


source:pulse.ng

National Broadcasting Commission (NBC) ,Bans Radio Stations From Playing Wizkid's The Matter & Phyno's Man of the Year

According to Beatfm OAP Gbemi Olateru Olagbegi, The National Broadcasting Commission (NBC) has instructed them not to play two songs - Wizkid ft Maleek Berry - The Matter and Phyno - 'Man of the Year. Were they singing ashewo things in the songs?

7 Healthy Tips for Beautiful Skin

Like the crazed scientist’s quest for the fabled philosopher’s stone, the quest for beautiful skin is a never-ending journey for which many a lady would give a sizeable chunk of their worldly possessions to attain.
With the toning/bleaching syndrome rapidly catching on among the ladies, the quest for beautiful skin has never been more vicious or competitive – lightening creams and soaps abound with promises of overnight transformation and younger-looking, glowing skin. But what shall it profit a lady to have ‘white’, translucent skin but still have dark, gnarled knuckles? The road to great skin goes beyond having the right cosmetic products, rather its a wholesome process which involves amongst other things observing the right skin health practises, a healthy diet and yes, having the right skin care products.
So have you been been devoting energy and resources to finding the perfect skin beauty products? Perhaps its time to change directions and look into nourishing the skin as opposed to merely polishing it because in the end, healthy skin equals beautiful skin and beautiful skin equals a more confident and sexy woman.
Now that we’ve covered the basics, let’s get straight into the business of the day. The road to glowing, gorgeous skin…
1. Never, ever sleep with makeup on: You may or may not have heard this before but sleeping with makeup is the biggest no-no in the quest for healthy skin because it can have very damaging effects. Essentially, there’s an oil build up overnight which leads to clogged pores and it goes downhill from there – pimples, darkened skin and after a period of time, wrinkles, dull skin. So, save yourself the trouble and endeavour to always wash off your face before sleeping at night.
2. Water is the skin’s best friend: Drink loads of it, splash it on your face, just get all round comfortable with it. Water is a great hydrant which cleans the system and also tightens the pores. Drink several tall glasses a day not just for great skin but also for better bowel movement which in turn improves the appearance of the skin. Also when washing off make-up, splash cold water on your face to tighten the pores. Wash with warm water and again rinse off with cold water. Warm water opens up the pores which allows for the germs to be thoroughly washed off while the cold water at the end tightens the pores so that they’re sealed from contamination and further exposure to germs.
3. The sun is NOT the skin’s best friend: Constant exposure to the sun not only darkens the skin but also reduces the skin’s elasticity which over time becomes damaging for the skin. Need we say more?
4. In case of blemishes and long term infections: To get rid of deep blemishes and long term infections, simply dilute apple cider vinegar in water and apply to affected areas for a soothing, healing effect. Natural, hydroquinone free and without any side effects.
5. Natural exfoliating: Dilute a few drops of lavender oil in hot water and cover your head over it for a refreshing, home spa session. The steam opens up the pores cleaning out impurities while also serving as an antiseptic.
6. For brighter skin:  To lighten dark spots, squeeze some lemon juice over the area. Also apply organic yoghurt all over the face for clearer, brighter complexion.
7.  Eat your way to great skin: As we’ve said earlier, the road to great skin starts from within as such food items like salmon, garlic, sweet potato, egg yolk and avocado are great for the skin. Salmon is rich in protein, potassium and Vitamin B-6, garlic reacts with the blood to fight bacteria, sweet potato is rich in potassium, sodium and Vitamin A while avocado pear is rich in Vitamin E and C as well as collagen all of which are great nutrients for the skin.